The Truth About DIY Weddings in Oklahoma: Why It Costs More Than You Think
Pinterest boards, TikTok videos, and budget-friendly wedding blogs often make DIY weddings look like the ultimate money-saving hack. But if you talk to couples who went the DIY route, you’ll often hear a different story: hidden costs, long to-do lists, and more stress than they ever imagined.
The truth is, DIY weddings often end up costing more—both financially and emotionally—than booking an all-inclusive venue. Here’s why Oklahoma brides are discovering that what looks like savings upfront can quickly turn into a budget (and sanity) buster.
1. Rentals Add Up Quickly
At first glance, renting your own tables, chairs, linens, and décor may not seem too expensive. But once you factor in:
Tables and chairs for every guest
Linen and napkin rentals
Chargers, flatware, and glassware
Delivery fees, setup fees, and pickup fees
…the total quickly exceeds what an all-inclusive venue like Rose Briar Place already provides at no extra charge.
2. Décor and Setup Are More Time-Consuming Than You Think
DIY brides often underestimate how much time it takes to style a space. That means hauling in boxes, coordinating volunteers, and hoping everything looks right on the big day.
At Rose Briar Place, your package includes full décor setup and teardown—from linens and greenery to centerpieces and chargers. Our staff ensures everything looks beautiful while you actually enjoy your wedding morning.
3. Hiring Multiple Vendors Increases Stress (and Costs)
DIY weddings often require separate bookings for:
Catering
Cake
Coordination
DJ or MC
Décor rentals
That’s five contracts, five deposits, and five schedules to manage. With each vendor, the risk of delays, miscommunication, or extra fees increases.
At Rose Briar Place, our signature 4 C’s (Catering, Cake, Coordinator, and MC) are included in every package. You’re not chasing vendors—you’re enjoying peace of mind.
4. The “Friends and Family” Factor Backfires
Many DIY couples lean on friends and family for setup, tear-down, or day-of coordination. While well-meaning, this often leaves loved ones working instead of celebrating.
By contrast, Rose Briar Place provides a full team—including a day-of coordinator—so your family and friends can enjoy the wedding just as much as you do.
5. Weather Backup Plans Aren’t Cheap
Outdoor-only DIY weddings are risky in Oklahoma, where weather can change in minutes. Renting tents, flooring, heaters, or fans for “just in case” can blow your budget.
Rose Briar Place eliminates that stress with both indoor and outdoor ceremony options—seamlessly managed by our team if the weather takes a turn.
6. DIY Costs Don’t Show Up Until the End
Most couples assume DIY means cheaper, but when all is said and done, they end up paying for:
Delivery and pickup fees
Service staff and gratuities
Cleanup charges
Backup rentals for things they forgot
An all-inclusive venue rolls these into one upfront price, saving you thousands and eliminating surprises.
Why All-Inclusive Weddings Save You More
When you compare line-by-line, it’s clear: DIY may look budget-friendly, but it often costs more in money, time, and stress. With Rose Briar Place, you get:
✅ Tables, chairs, linens, and décor included
✅ Custom cake, catering options, coordinator, and MC
✅ Full setup, takedown, and cleanup handled by our staff
✅ Indoor/outdoor ceremony flexibility
✅ Transparent pricing with no hidden fees
The Rose Briar Place Difference
At Rose Briar Place, we believe wedding planning should be exciting—not exhausting. That’s why we offer the most-reviewed, top-rated all-inclusive wedding packages in Oklahoma.
Our motto is simple: “You bring the dress, we do the rest (almost).” Instead of juggling a dozen vendors and invoices, you book once and breathe easy.
Ready to Save Time, Stress, and Money?
If you’re newly engaged and starting to plan your Oklahoma wedding, skip the DIY headaches and discover how much simpler—and more affordable—an all-inclusive venue really is.
Schedule your tour at Rose Briar Place today and see why Oklahoma couples trust us with their most important day.
