Just Engaged? Here’s What to Do First (And What You Can Skip)

The Ultimate First Steps for Newly Engaged Couples in Oklahoma

Congratulations—you’re engaged! Whether the proposal was a total surprise or months in the making, this is one of the most exciting chapters of your life. But as soon as the ring is on your finger, the reality sets in—where do we even start with wedding planning?

If you're newly engaged and overwhelmed by the endless advice on what to do next, don’t worry—we’ve got your back. As one of the most trusted all-inclusive wedding venues in Oklahoma, Rose Briar Place has helped hundreds of couples navigate the start of their planning journey.

Here’s a stress-free guide on what to do first—and what you can totally skip for now.

✅ First Things to Do After You Get Engaged

1. Celebrate the Moment

Before diving into spreadsheets and Pinterest boards, soak it all in. Whether it’s a date night, engagement party, or quiet moment with family, take time to enjoy being newly engaged. This season of your life is special—savor it.

2. Talk About Your Wedding Vision (Big Picture Only)

You don’t need every detail figured out yet, but it helps to sit down and chat about the basics:
✔️ Indoor or outdoor ceremony?
✔️ Big celebration or something more intimate?
✔️ Dream season or general timeframe?
✔️ Any must-have traditions or cultural elements?

These conversations will help narrow down your search when it's time to tour venues.

3. Set a Realistic Budget Range

Before booking anything, have an open discussion about what you're comfortable spending overall. This helps avoid stress down the road—and ensures you’re only considering venues and vendors within your budget.

Pro Tip: Many couples are surprised how much is already included with venues like Rose Briar Place, which helps stretch your budget further.

4. Start Your Venue Search Early

If you’re wondering, “When should we book our wedding venue?”, the answer is: as soon as possible. In-demand venues (especially in Oklahoma City, Yukon, Mustang, Edmond, and surrounding areas) can book out 12-18 months in advance, particularly for peak seasons like spring and fall.

Touring venues early helps you:
✔️ Lock in your ideal date
✔️ Visualize your day
✔️ Understand what’s included (spoiler alert: at Rose Briar Place, a lot is already covered)

5. Take Venue Tours Together

This is your first big decision as an engaged couple—make it a fun experience! Touring together helps you both feel included, ensures your vision aligns, and gives you time to ask the right questions.

Looking for venues near Oklahoma City? Rose Briar Place offers private tours where you can see exactly how effortless and stress-free your day can be.

❌ What You Can Skip (For Now)

Planning a wedding is exciting, but you don’t need to do everything at once. Here’s what can wait:

🚫 You Don’t Need Every Vendor Booked Right Away
Focus on your venue first. Once that’s secured, booking vendors like your photographer, florist, and entertainment will fall into place—especially if your venue includes services like a coordinator or MC (like we do at Rose Briar Place).

🚫 You Don’t Need Your Entire Guest List Finalized Immediately
Have a rough estimate of guests for your venue search, but don’t stress about exact numbers yet. Your guest list will evolve as you plan.

🚫 You Don’t Need to Pick Colors, Flowers, or Décor Right Away
These details come later—and may even be influenced by your venue’s style or included décor options. At Rose Briar Place, we offer multiple design packages with linens, centerpieces, and enhancements already included, making those decisions even easier.

Your Venue Sets the Tone for Everything

The best advice we give newly engaged couples? Once you're ready, start touring venues—it’s the foundation of your entire wedding plan. Your venue affects your date, budget, style, and timeline.

At Rose Briar Place, we offer:
✔️ All-inclusive wedding packages with no hidden fees
✔️ Décor, linens, glassware, and centerpieces included
✔️ Private getting-ready suites for both of you (yes, with cable TV & Xbox!)
✔️ The option to bring in your own catering for personal or cultural touches
✔️ A seamless experience guided by our experienced coordinators

Ready to Start Touring Venues in Oklahoma?

Let’s make your newly engaged season exciting, easy, and stress-free. Book a private tour of Rose Briar Place today and see how effortless your wedding day can be.

We’ll handle the details—you focus on celebrating this exciting new chapter.

Contact us today to schedule your tour and discover why Rose Briar Place is one of Oklahoma’s most-loved wedding venues for newly engaged couples.