What Couples Can Do in OKC on Memorial Day Weekend — Bonding Ideas for Engaged Couples
Memorial Day Weekend in Oklahoma City is more than just a three-day break—it's a golden opportunity for engaged couples to relax, reconnect, and make lasting memories before the wedding whirlwind hits full speed.
Whether you're deep in wedding planning or just soaking up your engagement season, OKC offers the perfect mix of fun, romance, and low-stress activities that’ll help you bond, laugh, and maybe even cross a few to-dos off your list.
Here’s a guide to the best things couples can do together in OKC on Memorial Day Weekend, with a focus on engagement-friendly ideas that blend relaxation, celebration, and connection.
🌅 1. Catch a Sunrise or Sunset at Lake Hefner
Few things are more peaceful (and photogenic) than a lakeside moment with your fiancé(e). Grab coffee and a blanket, and head to Lake Hefner to watch the sun rise or set. It’s the perfect setting for:
Unplugging from stress
Talking about future plans (like honeymoon ideas!)
Even capturing some casual engagement photos
📝 Pro Tip: Book a mini photo session with a local photographer—OKC has lots of creatives offering quick sessions during holiday weekends.
🎶 2. Dance Together at a Local Live Music Spot
Feel like getting dressed up and dancing the night away? Memorial Day Weekend often means live music all across OKC—whether it’s jazz in the Paseo District, country at Stockyards City, or a rooftop DJ downtown.
Romantic venues to check out:
The Jones Assembly – Killer food, cocktails, and live performances
The Criterion – Great if you're into a concert-style experience
Scissortail Park concerts – Laid-back lawn vibes for couples who love the outdoors
💃 Even if you’re not a dancer, swaying under the stars with your soon-to-be spouse is a vibe worth chasing.
🍷 3. Go on a DIY Wine or Brewery Crawl
Oklahoma City has a growing scene of craft breweries and wineries, making it easy to plan a fun and boozy afternoon date. Hit up a few spots, share flights, and rate your favorites together.
🥂 Suggested stops:
Wheeler District Ferris Wheel + Anthem Brewing
Coop Ale Works
The Study – cozy wine bar with chill vibes
Waters Edge Winery – charming local option for wine lovers
📝 Bonus points if you start brainstorming what drinks you want at your wedding bar!
🛍️ 4. Take a Stroll & Shop at Midtown or Paseo Arts District
OKC’s art districts come alive on holiday weekends, and they’re full of quirky boutiques, food trucks, art galleries, and walkable streets. Perfect for couples who want:
A casual day out
Some unique home or wedding decor finds
To explore OKC’s creative side
🎨 Looking for something special? Commission a custom piece from a local artist that commemorates your engagement or wedding date!
🍽️ 5. Book a Chef’s Table or Private Dinner
Turn up the romance with a multi-course meal or private dining experience. Whether you’re celebrating your engagement or just looking to reconnect after months of planning, OKC has hidden gems like:
Nonesuch – Named one of the best new restaurants in America
The Metro Wine Bar & Bistro – Sophisticated, intimate, and ideal for couples
Grey Sweater – Upscale, curated experience that’s all about intentional dining
💌 Want something more low-key? Grab a blanket and have a picnic at Myriad Gardens, Scissortail Park, or Will Rogers Rose Garden.
🎨 6. Try a Creative or Hands-On Workshop Together
Get your hands dirty and make something together—it’s a surprisingly fun and intimate bonding activity. Over Memorial Day Weekend, many OKC venues host:
Pottery or ceramics classes
Couples’ cooking classes
Candle or soap-making workshops
Painting & wine nights
These types of experiences encourage teamwork, communication, and lots of laughs—perfect engagement bonding.
🎁 Bonus: You’ll walk away with a handmade keepsake.
💍 7. Visit a Wedding Vendor or Two (but Make it Fun!)
You can sneak in a little productive planning over the long weekend—especially if you're visiting from out of town. Use the extra day to:
Tour venues like Rose Briar Place (if you haven’t booked yet!)
Schedule cake tastings or catering samplings
Try on suits or dresses
Browse local wedding expos or pop-up markets
📸 Want to make it more like a date? Finish with brunch or ice cream and keep things light. No pressure, just progress.
🎡 8. Play Like Kids at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds or an Amusement Park
Tap into your playful side and head to Frontier City, or catch a carnival-style event at the State Fairgrounds. Share a funnel cake, ride the Ferris wheel, and laugh until you cry.
✨ It’s a great way to remember that your wedding is about fun and connection, not just planning.
🛏️ 9. Plan a Mini Engagement Staycation
Not up for traveling but still want to make Memorial Day feel special? Turn your weekend into a staycation right here in OKC. Book a luxe hotel like:
The Skirvin Hilton – Historic and romantic
Colcord Hotel – Stylish, modern, and downtown
21c Museum Hotel – Perfect for artsy couples
Order room service, bring along a bottle of champagne, and maybe even write your wedding vows together.
💡 10. Volunteer Together for Memorial Day
What better way to celebrate love than by giving back? OKC has plenty of opportunities for couples to serve the community together over Memorial Day Weekend. Consider:
Laying flags at veterans’ cemeteries
Donating to local shelters
Serving meals with a community kitchen
💖 It’s an unforgettable way to connect with each other and your community—especially meaningful for couples who want to start their marriage with purpose.
Final Thoughts: Make Memorial Day a Memory Maker
Whether you’re wine tasting in Midtown, strolling by the lake, dancing under the stars, or simply snuggling up for a staycation, Memorial Day Weekend in OKC is the perfect time to slow down and reconnect.
You're in a once-in-a-lifetime season—your engagement—and these kinds of bonding experiences are what you'll remember far beyond the big day.
Planning Your OKC Wedding? Don’t Forget to Tour Rose Briar Place!
Rose Briar Place is one of the most beloved wedding venues in Oklahoma City, offering:
Indoor & outdoor ceremony spaces
All-inclusive packages with catering, cake, coordination, and more
Dog-friendly policies
Flexible scheduling for tours—including Memorial Day Weekend
📅 Schedule your tour this weekend and make it a part of your engagement adventure!
📞 Call us at 405-603-7673 or Click here to book your tour
